© 2016 - Reprinted with permission from Shining Lotus Metaphysical Bookstore newsletter January 2016
by Mario C. Veo
We all want to communicate better – it is the single most important Key to Success – and absolutely fundamental to developing a true, long lasting love relationship… but how can we even begin if we don’t really know Who we are…?
Consider this – most of us look to our achievements as a reflection of our Self – indeed, our jobs, education, financial security… all play an important role in defining us… heck, even our struggles and challenges do this. But, as each Personality IS different, then no two people with exactly the same ‘achievements’ will give them the same value… and this shapes life accordingly. And more – determines the state of health, happiness or wisdom they will manifest in this and the next life!
So, understand this clearly – How YOU perceive any one thing, reflects back on you, and shapes your Life accordingly… Success or Failure lies in how you see and interact with Life… and all of it is strongly demonstrated by your Communication Style.
Let’s make this even more complicated – Mankind is numbered in billions – everywhere you go there are people… each looking at the same thing, BUT seeing it differently… how can you hope to work as a team, to have the same values, to yearn for the same goals if you don’t know how they see the world…!? Yes, you can study cultural behaviors, body language, and even social psychology… but if you don’t know how each Personality communicates it perceptions, then you can never really understand what makes them tick…
Enter The Enneagram —
The Enneagram is an ancient system first devised by a Spiritual-Mystical Group (which later became the Sufis). They discovered that no matter race, age, or culture, all of Mankind expresses one of 9 different personalities… (and here’s the wonderful insight) each with their own perceptions, different communication style, and different way to process information!!!
Imagine what you can do with such information – team building… easy, loving relationships, even easier(no more of that ‘Women From Venus’ stuff…)… seeking out your best, most rewarding career… bliss… no more struggling to find the most suitable work environment/neighborhood/city/country… they all have a personality and a corresponding Communication Style. Once you know this, you can be much more effective in getting your point across, even as you finally understand what is important to them – success is now easy to achieve!
The Enneagram is a unique system – not only is it very effective, it is also easy to understand. It is a powerful tool for transformation on all levels – whether you want to better understand who you really are, or wish to deepen your relationships… there is nothing better…
Mario C. Veo is a teacher of Spiritual Science and a Healing Arts Practitioner. He teaches classes and individuals on Personal Transformation and the Expansion of Consciousness. Mario is available for personal guidance and consultations on Tuesday afternoons at the Shining Lotus™ Bookstore.