© 2013 - Reprinted with permission from Shining Lotus Metaphysical Bookstore Newsletter October 2013
by Mario C. Veo
Many, many, many years ago friends of mine decided that “it was about time that I grew up and settled down…and that they knew this really nice girl…”
She was described as fun, energetic and passionate. Giving in to my curiosity I accepted…and it turned out to be the most bizarre – but energetic – date. Quite simply, I thought, we would catch a play, go to a nice little Italian restaurant, and see what happens…well, what did I know…?
It all started when I thought I would ‘take a short-cut’ which landed me on a road much too narrow – overwhelmed by traffic, I rushed (just a few minutes late) to her apartment only to find her already waiting for me impatiently. What followed was (ehm) ‘an interesting discussion’ as to the best way to get to the Theater. We did get there (just in time), flying up the stairs and being rushed to our seats just as the curtains rose (be grateful for small mercies, we did not have any time for chit-chat).
The play was, I thought, rather nice – some experimental piece about inner angst and getting lost in an overwhelming world of money and prostitution. How was I to know that she was a “cultural activist”, with strong opinions about the writer, the director, and the leading actress? I seem to remember her multiple use of the words prostitution!, debasement of human morals!, Nietzsche (yes, good ol’ Freddy)…and some other stuff. She was a Philosophy major, so she had a good vocabulary.
Dinner was…well, the food was, as always, great (although I must say, that night I appreciated the wine a bit more)…let’s just say that the discussion followed as it had been. As I drove her home – thinking that finally it was over – she totally surprised me by saying how stimulating the evening had been, how much she had enjoyed our ‘exchange of opinions’ and that she was looking forward (really?!) to our next date!!!
Well, smack me with a mackerel… and here I thought that it was beyond ruined! (no, I did not take her up on her offer of a night cap…I may be a guy, and I know all about which head drives my hormones…but I can equally look into the future. If this was what she found exciting, then I would have no pleasure. So, as a good gentleman (yes, I can be that as well) I politely declined…and refrained from making further comments…
What did all this teach me? NEVER allow your ‘friends’ to meddle in your love life… next – DO NOT accept any blind dates without much research…but most of all – Way too many people enjoy the Drama of Life…all that is Chaotic, Traumatic, filled with Turmoil…they find exciting! For them, this is Life at its most interesting…How sad!
Later, through my Spiritual Studies, I learned about the connection between Chaos and Illness…between Drama and Unhappiness…between Antagonism and the Dark Brotherhood.
Which brings me to this month’s classes – October is dedicated to learning how to release our Toxic Emotions, how to balance our Stress, how to awaken our Higher Mind, and how to create ‘True and Proper protection’…so that we can all embrace a Joyous Life. Or, would you like an ‘energetic date’…I know this girl who…she’s really nice…very (ehm) “fun…energetic…passionate“…
So… what have you got to lose? …except your limitations!?!
Mario C. Veo is a teacher of Spiritual Science and a Healing Arts Practitioner. He teaches classes and individuals on Personal Transformation and the Expansion of Consciousness. Mario is available for personal guidance and consultations on Tuesday afternoons at the Shining Lotus Bookstore.